March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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My life use to be rather boring. It’s not exactly that I wasn’t happy; I had plenty to be pleased about. I am doing very well as an entrepreneur; I take great pleasure in life more than most people do. I put in a little extra, pursuing an mba from a high-status eastern university at the moment, worked more than most people would have found doable, used a professional, outgoing demeanor at all times to make sure that I had plenty of contacts with other winning attractive people. But I was still unhappy, despite all my hard work my determination of success. That’s when I made up my mind that what I needed was a foreign affair.
I took a flight to Russia the first coming weekend. Formally, the purpose was business, but actually, was on my mind. You see, I’ve always been a doer; in my private life, as well as my professional life. I don’t even draw a distinction because in all things, the most imperative thing is to decide what you want go for it with all your heart.
A foreign affair began at a successful business meeting. Her name was Tania, she was the most gorgeous woman I’ve ever met. Not just her mystifying, Slavic skin tone or her lush black hair, but the way she held herself. Everything about her radiated an aura of self-confidence secrecy.
You see, a foreign affair with a foreign woman is unlike from one with an American. There are cultural barriers, language barriers, of course the different way of looking at the world. My Russian was not good, her English was just as bad, so on our first date at the embassy party, we could only speak with the aid of my manservant translator, Johann. Our mutual magnetism was obvious, the language cultural difference was something we both had to overcome. By the time she was speaking fluent English I was speaking fluent Russian, we both felt like we had learned so much about each other. A foreign affair turned out to be an international .
So if you’re bored with your life, even if you’re as successful as I am, there are many things you can do. A new hobby, such as golf or charity can be a powerful cure to weltshmerz, of course there is the pleasure of the written word the theatre. But there are not many pleasures as great as the pleasure of a foreign affair. I can only recommend it.
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Author: Finn Jensen
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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The traditional definition of cheating, or infidelity, is that one person in a committed relationship is physically involved with someone other than their spouse. Due to a number of factors, cheating behavior has been reclassified to include the traditional definition and a more contemporary definition, known as emotional infidelity.
The Definition of Emotional Infidelity
Emotional infidelity is defined as any infidelity that occurs through feeling or thought. During the late 1970s, in an interview with Playboy magazine, former President Jimmy Carter stated that occasionally he lusted in (his) heart for women other than his wife. His thoughts were equated with infidelity, and he was considered to be unfaithful to his marriage, even though his statement described emotional infidelity, not physical infidelity.
Since that time, and with the technological development of cell phones and the internet, the definition of cheating has been expanded to include the traditional definition, plus the feelings and/or thoughts that comprise emotional infidelity. Cheating now includes having intimate correspondence with someone while on a cell phone, meeting someone over the Internet and maintaining a relationship, or viewing pornographic material through any available source.
The Difference Between Traditional Cheating and Emotional Infidelity
The primary difference between traditional cheating and emotional infidelity is actual, physical contact. Traditionally, cheating involves people meeting face to face, and then engaging in physical intimacy. With emotional infidelity, there may be a meeting, but it can occur on a cell phone or a computer. There may be physical activity involved, but it is conducted within the confines of separate locations; the people involved aren’t actually touching. Many of the people who are emotionally cheating don’t consider it to be infidelity Their rationale is that, because there is no actual physical contact, the behavior can’t be considered cheating.
For some people, there is no difference between traditional and emotional infidelity. They view emotional infidelity as having the same behavioral components and end result as traditional cheating; therefore, any perceived differences are a moot point. When someone cheats, they use flirtation, discussion, seduction, and discretion - regardless of where either person is located or what vehicle of communication they are using. The end result is that the unfaithful spouse is paying emotional and/or physical attention to someone other than their partner, and they are removing themselves from the marriage commitment.
Emotional Intimacy Can Lead To Physical Intimacy
Emotional infidelity begins with the exchange of personal information. As the people involved get acquainted, the information exchanged becomes more personal. When the information becomes personal, it can lead to a face-to-face meeting and, most likely, physical intimacy. It can be argued that emotional infidelity is harmless because it is more of a casual relationship than traditional cheating; however, the intimate nature of the communication, plus the emotional investment made by the people involved, places emotional infidelity on the same level as traditional cheating.
Considering the wide-reaching capabilities of the internet, the continuing advancement of cell phone technology, and the various other communication devices available, the number of people engaged in emotional infidelity will only increase. People cannot be stopped from engaging in an illicit affair, but they should consider the effect that cheating will have on the spouse. They should also consider the possible consequences of emotional infidelity, which can be the same as those of traditional infidelity, including divorce.
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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You are engaged in casual conversation. You are at home, having dinner with family and friends.
Then your eyes meet.
Its different than a normal gaze.
Its different than just general attention to the words and the path of conversation that has been following along.
Its very different.
For a moment, even a brief moment, you suddenly find a recognition in this persons face, this persons eyes. A recognition that you have never seen before. A realization that your friendship is not new. It is not something that youve just discovered or stumbled across.
It is a sudden realization, a sudden revelation that you havent just recently met.
Youve known each other before. Youve known each other, a long time ago Youve known each other forever.
The realization isnt like you were lovers or intimately involved. This is a mortal function of this life here on earth.
Its a realization that you were friends, true friends, deeply in love with who the other is and who the other could become.
And you know you knew each other very well. As if youd spent a great deal of time together. As if youd known each other for an eternity.
You suddenly realize you did live before you came to this earth. You did have another life before this one. You did laugh and love and learn and grow with others who were to be your contemporaries here on earth.
And yes, you did love. A pure and innocent, simple and honest love for others who are your true friends. Your true bosom companions. Your true soul mates.
As you both sit, transfixed in one anothers gaze you realize in that moment, that brief moment, that you are eternal beings, eternal friends.
And you are in love with each other.
Not a romantic love, but a sibling and family love. A love of mutual honor and respect for who they are and who they were before this life.
You find your heart both rejoicing and aching for one another. Praying that you will both endure the trials and challenges of this short existence. Praying that you may both survive, that you may both triumph, that you may both be blessed with the opportunity of sibling association and love in this life, and the next.
It is true. We will discover that we have loved and that we will love many in this life. We will love them for who they are, and for what they will help us to become.
Because of your love.
Bob Curtis has a bachelor’s degree in Psychology, and has been writing about the elements of relationships for a number of years. He is the manager of the Essential Sunshine Association, a new website for positive relationship development at http://www.essun.blogspot.com
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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In a relationship its very important to be able to tell the difference between love and lust. You have to define your own priorities first in order to judge your partners intentions. Love is profound, deep and infinite. Lust on the other hand is a temporary longing, a shallow feeling and one-dimensional craving. Relationships based entirely on lust are often very short-lived. Physical attraction is also the basis of love, so telling them apart sometimes becomes difficult.
Love is defined as an emotion which drives you to sacrifice everything you have for the person you love. You can test your partner by placing him/her in a compromising situation and seeing their reaction. Love is based on complete trust and mutual understanding. If the two of you argue a lot and then dont make any conscious efforts of making up afterwards, then chances are your relationship was merely based on lust and there was no love involved. Love has a positive effect on a relationship and even after fights your relationship strengthens because you come closer in making apologies and doing everything in your control to make each other happy.
Because a relationship based on lust is temporary, both partners will eventually start looking for other people to satisfy their needs. Lustful relationship could be fulfilling for a short time but they are disastrous in the long run. There are fights to no end, arguments over nothing and no respect for each other. Another noticeable difference between a loving relationship and a lustful relationship is that the latter starts with a much more passion. There are phone calls and dates that last all day long and in the beginning it seems as if theres nothing separating this couple. However, as time passes this passion dies down and their supposed love for each other gets forgotten and they start having fights and eventually break up.
People who are truly in love base their relationships on respect for each other, compromising behavior and selfless attitude. They are ready to sacrifice anything for their partner. Lustful relationship brings two people close only to have fun and both of them are selfish in their demands. They dont have any respect for their partner and dont have any commitment plans in their minds.
In order to save yourself from getting hurt you have to understand your partners real intentions behind going out with you and showering you with gifts. Make sure you two have good plans for your future life together and that both of you stick with those plans in order to realize them.
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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Eyes of fire met mine
through the hole in the wall,
the hole, where they passed through his food.
Only sixteen years old
but hed lived more of life
than someone seventy-five.
He pushed his h through
looking for ,
if hed had, he wouldnt be there.
In a 8×10 cell,
going no where,
a scapegoat for the sins of the world.
I cradled his h
whispered, tell me your pain,
his story flew out of his mouth.
The hell of his life,
from those he d,
a world where no body cared.
The mistakes that he made
just to endure,
the choices which put him in there.
I caressed his cold h
said, I underst,
my own past came rushing back.
Of nights all alone
in the midst of turmoil,
from parents who cared more for themselves.
The mistakes that I made,
just to fit in,
it could have been me in that space.
I told him my story
what I had learned,
both the good the bad.
There is evil in life,
but God does us,
there is a purpose to pain.
To lead us to what
God sent us to do,
thats why I was holding his h.
And just like Gods Son,
who died in his pain,
we too can be Saviors of men.
It was time to go,
the guard took my chair,
I kneeled on the cold cement floor.
Oh that I could squeeze through
hold in my arms,
there really was someone who cared.
Our hs held
tight as he asked me to pray,
I asked for his comfort peace.
Tears flowed down his face,
tears ran down mine too,
flaming eyes now were serene.
I threw him a kiss,
in a room filled with light,
angels were filling that space.
His hs squeezed mine tight
as he whispered his thanks,
a sweet smile, my gift for the day.
I got up from my knees,
my heart over flowed
with thanks for a mission to fill.
I walked down dark halls
with so many doors,
lost children I needed to save.
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Eva Fry’s mission is to help others become better happier. She is an inspirational author, singer/songwriter/ motivational speaker seminar leader. Eva has published three books - YOU MUST HAVE A DREAM -for seniors, BE A WINNER IN LIFE-for good kids, troubled kids their parents. LETTERS FROM JUVENILE HALL, KIDS HELPING KIDS (Actual letters from kids at Juvenile Hall, intended to save other kids from destroying their lives) She invites you to use the FREE ARTICLES she has written for: at- risk kids Also FREE ARTICLES of inspiration to help meet life’s challenges. http://www.evafry.com She has produced 7 Music CD’s
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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To most of us ordinary Joes, writing a love letter seems like something from Shakespeare or from another world that we know nothing about. After all, we dont really write letters at all very much in our modern world. And so you wonder, what is the reason for writing a love letter to your girlfriend or wife? But that is our logical side getting involved again.
Romance is not logical. Rather we should say, it has its own logic system. The love letter, like the romantic date, the romantic anniversary, and so many things we do to make our lover happy are not done because they have practical reasons for existing.
There is one basic reason for thinking of creative and diverse romantic things like love letters to share with your sweetheart. It makes them feel romantic toward you and the outcome is greater affection, more passionate love making, and more fun and exciting dates when you spend time together.
You dont always draw the connection between a card or letter, or flowers, and that moment of passion later on. That is because men are very immediate in how we think and react. Something that happens in the afternoon will not affect one way or another how affectionate we are that night with our sweetheart. But women are wired differently than men; perhaps you knew that already.
A woman will react to a romantic gesture from you for hours into the future. In fact, one romantic gesture from you like flowers or a love letter can produce continued romantic feelings in her for months and years into the future. That is one great investment. For the little effort you put in to learn what makes her heart warm and glowing with love for you, you get back hours and hours of love, affection, and passion from her, a wellspring of love that never runs dry.
There are actually quite a wide variety of ways you can use love letters to enhance your romance with the lady of your life.
- When apart, either for a few days or for a long time. Spelling out your feelings for her in a letter will become a treasured memory and keepsake for her for the rest of her life.
- For special days like anniversaries and birthdays. If you send her a love letter in the mail to arrive on that day and she isnt expecting it, that surprise will create a volcano of romance in her. She will be so excited about your letter and your surprise, and it only cost you some paper, a stamp, and maybe a little time writing the letter.
- At unexpected times and places. If she receives a love letter from you at work, she will suddenly go from that efficient worker to your sex kitten in the blink of an eye. Her coworkers will see her blush from all the feelings she has for you but the real expression of her passion will be that night in your arms.
So how to go about using this wonderful romantic tool? Well, you dont have to be a poet or a great writer to write her a love letter that touches her heart. Follow these simple guidelines:
- Write like you talk. Dont try to suddenly become Mr. Poetry. Just say what is in your heart just like you would if you were together. She will hear your voice in the letter and it will be like music to her.
- Be brief. A little goes a long way in a love letter. One way to keep yourself brief is to write your love note in a romantic card and send it that way. The card helps the feeling of the moment and you dont have that much room to write in there so she wont expect an essay or magnum opus from you.
- Reference private jokes and shared memories. That night we first kissed when you were so afraid watching Jaws with me, is one of my favorite moments of our life together. She will remember that moment and it will bring a smile to her face. Moreover, it will bring back the feeling of romance she had for you that night and it will spring up fresh and new all over again.
- Use images. You can compare her to a flower or describe a romantic scene you can imagine for you and her. Go ahead, make it exotic, your minds are inhabiting the scene so you can afford it.
- Dont be dirty or graphic. Romance leads to sexuality but you dont have to push it. Dont discuss how much you want her sexually. Discuss emotions, feelings, romantic thoughts, and places. If you want to talk about intimacies, talk about hugging and kissing and snuggling. Believe it or not, to the woman, those things are as sexual as anything you share in the bedroom.
The important thing about writing a love letter is to give it a try. Dont just think about it, get out a pen and paper and write one now. Or get a card and work on one. Dont think too much about it. If you think a lot about what you will say or how to do this, that will make you nervous and you will stop. The best way to create a romantic note that will really touch her is be spontaneous and just charge ahead. Sure, you will make mistakes but the fact that you acted out of passion and spontaneous feelings for her will more than compensate for spelling errors or clumsy prose.
Even if your girl has not spoken of wanting a love note, you can be sure she will welcome yours. If you are scared to do it, say so in your note. Use the love letter to share everything you feel and you will see her open her heart to you either with a surprise of her own or that night as you cuddle and make love and celebrate the love you nurtured with your love letter in each others arms.
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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What can be more romantic than sending a handwritten love letter to your loved one, full of romantic words and genuine feelings you have for him/her? Love letters are one of the best ways to show your special loved ones how you feel for them and how much you love them.
A heartfelt love letter also makes the perfect gift for Valentine’s Day, but you don’t have to just limit yourself to that specific day. Every day is a great opportunity to make your loved one happy by sharing your deepest feelings with him/her.
The great thing about love letters is that you don’t have to be a poet or a skilled "writer" to be able to write them. Everyone - and I really mean "everyone" - can do it.
Because they are just about putting your romantic feelings into words genuinely - even in very simple words. This openness is what makes love letters special.
To write a more romantic and heart warming letter, here are some questions that will give you good ideas to write about:
Idea #1:
What was the first time you felt you were in love with him/her? Did anything special happen that made you realize your love?
You can describe in clear details how it happened and how you felt and it will mean the world to your loved one. I promise. 
Idea #2:
What is the #1 thing he/she has that makes you feel so much in love with him/her whenever you think about it? It could be about looks or about personality.
For example you may say "the way her face shines when she smiles", or "the way his eyes always bring peace and love to me when I look into them."
Idea #3:
What positive changes have you made since he/she has entered your life? What valuable lessons have you learned from him/her?
For example it could be that before you met him/her, you were pretty shy and didn’t fully believe in yourself and your unique abilities, but he/she helped you love yourself more and be proud of who you are.
When your loved one reads this, she will practically feel on clouds because he/she sees what a big difference he/she had made in your life.
Idea #4:
It’s also a good idea to include a heartfelt romantic love poem at the end or the beginning of your letter. Sometimes nothing can show how we feel better and deeper than a good poem.
Idea #5:
And as the last tip: Don’t forget to say "I Love You" at the end of your letter. This simple yet effective sentence will really seal the deal in your loved one’s mind.
Wish you a wonderful life full of love,
Ladan Lashkari
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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Love is a quality of God. Lovers of God, sometimes a door opens, and a human being becomes a way for grace to come throughRUMI
This world would be lonely without love and lovers. Relationships carry the important function of blending the physical/material needs with the emotional, the psychological and the spiritual side.
What do you offer in a relationship? Going into a relationship blindly often spells disaster. It does not mean that one has to prepare a checklist before getting into a relationship. This spoils the spontaneity.
What moves you to accept a commitment and get involved?
- urgings of the flesh, physical attraction;
- dazzled by the glitter of material wealth,
success and social status;
- to battle loneliness or a rebound from a
broken relationship;
- a meal ticket; or out of sympathy
- a matter of convenience
- love
There are many facets to a relationship. Each day brings surprises- some are exciting, some can be challenging. At times, underlying issues surface and must be dealt with before it gets blown out of proportion. Face and discuss these issues. Is it emotional, physical, sexual, health, cultural, social, psychological, financial or hormonal? Yes, do not forget the role of hormones.
Financial and economic problems can be devastating if these are not taken cared of. Honesty about the financial state of a relationship is important.
Don’t let the flame of romance die. Express your passion through sex, savor the ecstasy. Sex is an integral part of a loving relationship. A fulfilling sex life can bring wonders to lovers that goes beyond the physical state.
When two people can not discuss issues, tension builds up. Discord settles in. This opens wide the portals of discontent and temptation. Apathy becomes a shield. The love that once brought two people together turns sour and bitter.
In anger, things are blurted out without thinking. Issues surface reflecting inner insecurities, doubts and worst- fears. Anger is a tool to vent frustrations which at times is not related to what started it.
Words are the cheapest commodity but can bring about the most damage in terms of emotions, physical well being, mental and spiritual health. Words blurted out in anger can open deep wounds. Words that drip with malice can reverberate for a long time.
Sometimes, what we tend to dislike or disapprove in the other may reflect an inner conflict that has been simmering, just waiting to boil over.
Going separate ways is an easy way out. When lovers find a mutual bonding, respect and love for each other, the channels of communication are open. This paves the way to a peaceful, harmonious and loving relationship. This gives strength to both as their love deepens. This is empowering.
Relationships founded on mutual love, faith and respect tend to ride out the stormy days. There will be times of conflict, difference of beliefs and opinions which can end up in a screaming fight. But deep love can hold lovers together against all odds.
May your relationship be peaceful. May faith and love light your way and keep you strong. Happiness can be yours.
Bonnie Moss writes to inspire and to motivate her readers to explore the depths of their heart and soul and make a difference in this world. She draws from personal experience and her interest in the New Age Visit her website : goldencupcafe.tripod.com
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March 22nd, 2009 at 02:28pm
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What an exciting journey life can be! We were taught so many things growing up, to be polite, to respect others, to go to school and get good grades. We werent taught some very important things, probably because they are only learned through the school of hard knocks. I must have been absent that day but life lessons and challenges presented themselves and through the years Ive learned how to (hopefully) best deal with this wonderful life gift we have been given.
GO WITH THE FLOW:
Things are not going to always go in the way we would like. Actually quite often they will go in the opposite direction from what we expected the outcome to be. Its not what presents itself to us that matters as much as it is how we deal with it. Recognize it as a learning lesson, a challenge but also as a new opportunity to grow. By coming across different people, circumstances and challenges, we always learn a new (and hopefully) better way to deal with them. When they come up again, we are old hands at it if weve learned from prior experiences! When opposition presents, instead of fighting back so hard, sit back for a moment and see how to go with the flow of the life lessons that are being created.
SET CLEAR INTENTIONS:
Like attracts like, there is not getting around it. We are beings of Energy, we are surrounded by Energy and we need to focus on what we desire to create in our lives. It is essential to keep a positive attitude and just BE, knowing that the Universe has everything we need and want as long as we are sending the correct Intentions forth. This is an especially difficult principle to relay to people that have become depressed by circumstances. Changing your way of thinking from the negative to the positive has done amazing things that are documented: cured cancer, brought wealth beyond someones wildest dreams, attracted wonderful people into their lives to love and support them. Stay in the positive and you will get back the best possible outcomes.
LEARN TO LET GO:
Difficult as it can be, reassess your life and the people in it. Are they positive, like minded and do they support you when you need it most? Do they truly care about you or are they around you for another reason? I realized at one point that sadly enough, some of the people I called friends werent there for me, for the joyful occasions or the sad. And although some of them had been around for years, I needed to let go to be free to attract new people into my life that would truly care about me, support me and just BE there for me. Family members were a bit more difficult and I just cut down some of my time with them. Letting go of the old, and the known, is a difficult process but until we learn to let go we wont have room in our lives for the wonderful new people to come into it.
COUNT ON YOURSELF:
You are stronger then you ever imagined. Learn to count on yourself and not rely on someone else for your needs, wants and successes. You create your own life, not someone else and you are armed with everything you need to create all the desires in your heart. Co-dependant became a big word years ago and unfortunately still applies today. Learn to take charge of your own life and watch what you will create!
ALLOW THE MESSAGES:
Some people complain they never get messages, yet they are sent to us all the time. From loved ones who have passed, from our Spirit Guides, from our Sixth Sense, from the Universe itself. Trust yourself to take the time to SEE them; they are important as they are what guide us through life. Often in these stressful times, we dont even take the time to listen to our inner feelings—and kick ourselves later on, saying I know I should (shouldnt) have done that! We are working with Energy, learn to see, trust and believe in it and the messages will come to you. Its the basis of Inspiration.
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS:
I may sound like a broken record on this one, but it bears repeating (again and again sometimes). When you focus only on the negative, you are going to get back more of the same. Everyone has blessings, examine them, count them and as you keep those in mind, more will come. Counted Blessings add up to more blessings coming your way and soon you will have more then you ever imagined.
FIND THE SILVER LINING:Every cloud has one. Its our job to find it and many times not an easy task. But it is there if we look. That silver lining is our window of opportunity to change the situation around and if we miss it, we have missed a chance to change and grow. A love has left you and youre devastated? It also gives you more time to focus on YOU, things perhaps you didnt have time to do that you can now get involved with, an opportunity to meet and surround yourself with new people, places, things and ideas. Find that silver lining and USE it.
A NEW WAY TO LOOK AT THINGS:
Oftentimes when we are stuck or just plain sad, we see things in only black and white. We are unable to see the options open to us, to look at the world and our lives in a different way. Open yourself up to learn something new, read a book full of inspirational stories, be open to things that you once looked at as odd or different as an opportunity to learn new things about yourself, your life and the way you are living it. For years Feng Shui was a fad until people discovered that it actually works. If you rely heavily on your doctors, for example, look into wholistic health alternatives as well. Read subjects you wouldnt usually choose and make them inspiring—they will inspire you as well.
FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS:
Dont allow anyone to stop or deter you from your dreams. Your life was not created to look back and wonder what would have happened if you had found your passion and not created it. Negative people will sometimes give us the wrong information and try to deter us from achieving what we really want. These are their own doubts and fears coming out and being projected onto you. Dont allow it. You will never have to wonder what would have happened if you had only tried.
KEEP AN OPEN HEART:
You meet everyone in life for a reason. Open your heart to them; they were given to you as a gift or a learning tool. Dont be too busy to pursue a new friendship, dont just tell yourself the timing is wrong for a relationship, first step back a moment and see what these people are bringing to you and why you have attracted them. It is oftentimes for a wonderful reason, to meet a new and like minded person you have much in common with, a possible business partner or a new romance. Sometimes it is for challenges we must face. Just know they have come to you for a reason and keep your heart open to all who enter your own special space in the world.
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Certified Feng Shui Consultant since 1997 and Founder of Feng Shui Long Island, Carole Provenzale has been providing personalized and very affordable consultations for all of Long Island, New York City and Queens for Homes, Offices and Realtors for Home Staging with Feng Shui Principles. She seeks to impart Feng Shui knowledge to her clients and teaches them Feng Shui Principles and all the learning tools they will require as well as providing space clearings and and exterior blessings and a complete assessment of their homes or businessiness from an exterior and interior point of view. Carole is also a published author and keynote speaker for large and small corporations including NewCorp Corporation and The Long Island Board of Realtors and is available for lectures and workshops.
Please visit http://www.FengShuiLI.com or email her directly at FengShuiLI@aol.com for further information
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Love is Chemistry
Every emotion causes a chemical. Happiness, sadness, fear, worry, guilt, ambition, anger, joy, pleasure and pain. All 3600 emotions cause 3600 chemical combinations. (Candice Pert, Molecules of Emotion is a good reference) So you can see, that what we eat is only a part of the story of health.
Let me give you some funny examples of this.
There I was in the health food shop, surrounded by organic this, and untouched that, and low and behold I bumped into an old friend Their shopping basket was overloaded with packets of everything UN. Unbleached, Unpasturized, Unchemical, Unprocessed. All it needed was an N, and she could be a N UN. None. None of this, none of that
We spoke about the world and she was now working for world peace and meditated allot. I looked her lifeless complexion, her sagging posture and listed to her talk about how much the word needed her philosophy. How bad those corporate drug lords are and the list went on. Frankly, I said, I dont give a shit. She spat at me some obscenity and left. With her basket filled with good food but her veins filled with hate.
My Dad smoked for 70 years. He died in the end, the doctors shook their heads and blamed the cigarettes. My Dad nearly 90 years old and had lived under stresses like the second world war. Hed drunk beer, eaten sausages filed with fat, loved butter, and had built three houses from asbestos cement sheeting. But, the doctors all agreed, the cigarettes did it.
Telling people cigarettes are bad for them causes a chemical reaction in the body, before a person smokes. They feel guilty or something as a result of the negative advertising. So, who is making people sick, the cigarette company or the government who put disgusting pictures on cigarette packets.- WARNING SMOKING IS A HEALTH HAZARD>>>> well if it wasnt before, it is now
If you are a bundle of misery, always complaining about your ex, and how he or she, didnt do this and did do that, and shouldve done this and couldve done that, you are going to get sick. The chemicals of misery, acidify the body and kill you. That is a fact. Nature grows things that appreciate life, and shrinks things that dont appreciate life. So when you appreciate your lover, things grow (if you know what I mean both male and female) and if you dont appreciate them, things shrink So we are a part of natures evolution, and if we dont flow with nature, and expand our range of thankful things, we get sick.
But we cant expand our range of thankful things while we fit into societies thinking as a whole. Society mass consciousness already prescribed what you can appreciate and what you cant appreciate. Thats called religion. You get to have automatic responses to situations. Death means sad. Birth means happy. Cruel means hate. Kind means like. These become conditioned responses to life. But they are totally not the truth.
In some cultures death is good, and birth is bad. Many men think you have to be cruel to be kind and many women think kindness is love. We are totally messed up when we think we know that our responses to certain situations are real. Our responses to situations are never real. Our responses are our responses and bundle with those responses are centuries of conditioning, circumstances and memories in cells. Goodness knows, we are 99.999999999999999999995 wrong in our responses. We have to be..
Thats why people are single. They learn that their responses are screwed up because, well see, look what happened in the past. So they invest in being different, and bingo, now their responses are right. Wrong. Now their responses are someone elses.
So many women respond react aggressively to any form of control by men, yet, at their primal core, men are controlling. This may be confusing at first until you witness the pain, over thousands of years, male control has bought to womens lives. If you imagine the deep resentment at a DNA level for women, well, who can blame people for standing up against years of abuse, even if it isnt a current abuse, its years of backlog. And if you really think that by doing some sort of metaphysics weekend with a few self proclaimed spiritual gurus is going to change that meme, well good luck, what crapp total blab blab
So for me, it comes down to a confession. I dont know. I do know the laws of nature. That everything has two sides knocks out 90% of my reactions to situations before they begin. That we are all connected and what I see is me, knocks out another 5%. So now I am reacting about 5% of what I used to. And that last 5% - well thats human we have to have some challenges.
Because I know I dont know, it means that if someone says they know, I know they dont know, because to know, we must have no reactions. And they are usually telling me that they know, and when I say they dont know, they dont have no reaction. NO?
Nobody knows. We do understand the laws of nature. Nature cant write a book, bind it in leather, threaten you with life in hell if you dont obey. No, nature cant send terrorists to another city to hurt people to prove its right. Nature is like me, she doesnt give a shit. She just seeks balance. And if there is imbalance she corrects it. And if something is growing she nurtures it, and if something isnt growing she nudges it (aka Tsunami, earthquake, bush fire, volcano, landslide etc) Its a balancing act.
If we are deluding ourselves, and we are not really growing (be careful not to measure this in how clever you are) then we get nudged too. We get big nudges and little nudges. Big ones are cancers and things. Little ones are blisters on the toe. Either way, we grow at the border of support and challenge, and this is the way nature, and therefore your sacred relationship will grow you too. Challenge and support.
If you are thankful for both, youll make a very special chemical in your body. That is the love chemical. A virus thats contagious. Watch out. Love is catching.
So you can see, if we were to rate the possible influences on our body chemistry, which, as I described in yesterdays article Life is a chemical reaction, food, drink, emotion and lifestyle would all be seen to play a major role in health, heart and love.
If you are in the wrong job, then you are up against the wall. No diet or supplement is going to help you. But what is the wrong job? Frankly, I think no such thing exists. I think bad self management exists. For example if you were a fire person and did accounting type work, youd need lots of breaks, a run at lunch time, lots of intensity, computers and music. If you are an earth person al those things would cause you stress.
If you are in the wrong relationship, then you are up against the wall. No diet or supplement, or vitamin pill is going to keep you healthy. But, what is a bad relationship? Unless you are being decapitated each night, I suspect there is no bad relationship, there is only bad management. Not showing up, not protecting your sacred love home, too stressed, poor time management over work, too much digital life and not enough play. Yes, this can kill a good relationship, a fantastic relationship and a bad relationship.
Overall we can say that health is defined at the border of acidity and alkalinity. That means if we eat acid food (red meat, mushrooms, raw garlic, tomatoes, eggplant and onion are the most common) or drink acid drinks (coke, sprite, beer, wine, tomato and orange juice, coffee, tea) we need to live a lifestyle that is alkaline (relaxed, peaceful, tranquil, calm, secure, unemotional, at peace) and have emotions that are alkaline (nurturing, kind, generous, soft, caring, nice, etc)
In the reverse if we are peace seekers, then we can afford to have acidity in our work, like stress and worry, because the peaceful emotions (alkaline) balance the violent work (acid)
But it is rarely so. Peace seekers, usually go to health food shops seeking organic veggies, organic beer and organic happiness. And stressed people are attracted to acidic things like wine, beer, red meat, fat, over exercise, driving fast cars and more. So, when we say, in the new book sacred love that love is a lifestyle, we mean it. Too much acid will kill you just as fast as too much alkaline. Seeking peacefulness in all areas of life, a person becomes alkaline (slothful and tired) and seeking hyperactivity in all areas of life, a person becomes acid, (nervous and forgetful)
I always recommend that people eat according to their work. If they are stressed, balance it with alkaline food. IF they are lazy at work, then eat acid food.
Same with emotion.
Chris http://www.chriswalker.com.au Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chriss work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au
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